When people say, ‘Do this’ or, ‘Do that,’ maybe they’re right. But maybe they dont know what they’re talking about. Or, maybe the same rules don’t apply to you as to them. Sense and nonsense, it’s s fine line. However, one sure thing is that if we only did what more experienced people thought that we ouught, or only tread the path known to produce a certain result, the path to progress would be much slower and much less exciting. As a short aside to that, there is an undeniable tendency to get comfortable in the world created for us by others. But we’re rarely truly comfortable. What many of us really crave is a world created in our own image, to our own tastes. And generally speaking by, Only we can do that.